Relationship Dating or Ready for Love?

If relationship dating is what you don't want and a new relationship is what you do want, then ask yourself whether you are ready for love.

You can decide whether you are in a healthy place to start a new relationship and are ready to find love by answering these questions:

  • Are you still in love with an ex-partner?

  • Do you still have strong negative feelings such as anger and resentment towards him or her?

  • Do you find it difficult to talk about your feelings with others, or suppress your feelings so that you don’t feel any emotion? What would it be like to be on the receiving end of this in a relationship?

  • Do you feel empty inside and that you don’t have anything to offer a partner? Having a relationship may not be the right way to ‘fill you up’.

SELF ESTEEM and CONFIDENCE BUILDING

To be in a healthy relationship it's important to like the person you are.

When you are relationship dating it may not occur to you to ask yourself whether you are ready to find love.

How do you feel about yourself?

If you feel that you have little to offer and that no one would want to be in a relationship with you, then building your self esteem is essential because in order to be in a healthy relationship it's important to like yourself and be "willing to change the things you can, accept the things you can't change and have the wisdom to know the difference."

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If you know your own value and believe that you are loveable when you meet a partner , then you’ll be able to recognise what they see and like in you.

Find out more about "Why not to Get into a Relationship"

If you feel so lonely and desperate that you’re totally miserable without a relationship, then it’s time to make new friends, start new activities or heal past wounds so that your life is full and you are whole inside before you embark on a new relationship.

What's driving your love?

The trouble with not feeling good enough about yourself and feeling deep down that you are not loveable, is that you may depend on your partner to validate you.

You may need their affirmation and approval in order to prove to yourself that you are loveable.

If you are driven by insecurity or fear of rejection , the way in which you might show your love may be manipulative in that you are:

  • pleasing the person in order to win their approval
  • buying their affection with gifts
  • winning them over with compliments
  • controlling them for fear of losing them.

    The healthiest place to be when you decide to move on from relationship dating and to enter into a relationship, is to feel that you are good enough and that you are loveable despite your flaws.

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    How Coaching can Help you

    If you love yourself with your faults and are prepared to work on them, grow and change, if you accept that you are good enough as you are and that the person who loves you will love you as you are, then you will treat your partner in the way you want to be treated.

    "How to Show your Love"

    When you find love and you buy your partner gifts, do things to please them and give them compliments, you will be doing so because you want to express your love and appreciation and not because you fear losing theirs.

    Whom you choose to love is as important as HOW you chose to love when you move on from relationship dating.

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