A New Way to Find a New Love Relationship

Nigel’s Story: “The Walking Wounded”

Two broken marriages had left Nigel with a fear of rejection and being hurt. A new love relationship seemed out of reach. He started coaching sessions with trepidation at the thought of having to deal with these feelings.

“After the first session I walked out slightly baffled, wrong-footed – after all, I hadn’t expected to leave feeling optimistic about myself and the task ahead!

“Within a very short time I found that working on myself was so simple and refreshing that I wished I hadn’t waited so long!”

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“In addition, I discovered key nuggets of information that transformed my whole approach to meeting women again.

Instead of going places filled with anxiety and hope about ‘finding that special someone’, I learnt to give myself small, manageable goals that were fun and distracting. I’d do a few ‘eye-catching’ exercises – look around the room and see whose eye I might catch, and then see what happened if I smiled!

I also learnt to change my perspective – instead of approaching women with fear of rejection and hoping that they would select me, I learnt to place myself in the role of Recruitment Consultant, ‘interviewing’ the prospects.”

“Changing my focus in this way helped to put me in charge so that I felt relaxed enough to enjoy each encounter for what it brought.

Sooner than expected I met a wonderful woman. We took our time in getting to know one another before we decided to develop our relationship further.

This was a healthy turnaround from my past ways, and our relationship continues to flourish.“

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