How to Successfully Find your Ideal Partner

If you want to find your ideal partner then take this simple relationship advice - if what you’re doing isn’t working, then do something different! As the saying goes, for things to change, you’ve got to change.

Easier said than done, perhaps, but this is a great start.

To make your love life work for you there are things you can do to work out your love life.

For a start, think about this dating advice:

Change how you’re going about things both ‘externally’ (actions you’re taking or how you’re behaving) and ‘internally’ (your attitudes and approaches).

External Changes

When it comes to other external changes – ring them!

Some of us are creatures of habit, and we dress the way we do, wear our hair in the style we do, go to places and do the activities we like to do because that’s the easy, familiar and comfortable way.

  • Try doing one or two things differently – change your hairstyle or hair colour, go shopping with a friend whose dress sense is different from yours and get their advice.

  • Go to a singles’ event you might not normally try. If you’ve never been to one on your own, try going on your own. Being there without a friend will force you to wander around and chat to people rather than stick with your mate.

  • Set yourself a few tasks or goals so that you’re focussed on the these rather than on how you’re feeling inside. For example, set yourself the goal of speaking to 3 men and 3 women, standing on your own for 10 minutes and watching people - and watching what happens.

  • Change your profile on an internet dating site, join a dating agency or different dating site, answer a few ads that you previously might not have – just to get practise doing things differently.

  • In other words, step out of your comfort zone little by little and simply enjoy the fun of it instead of hoping for what might be. Stay ‘in the moment’ of it and enjoy that. Do it as a fun experiment rather than with the attitude or expectation that “This is going to change my life”.

  • Find out here how to handle a first date.

    You may not meet your ideal partner on this occassion, but each time you go to a singles event you'll be practising this dating advice & relationship advice - and practise makes perfect, so that the next time you're out and about with singles, these things will come to you more naturally.

    The more you practice doing something differently or do something different, the closer the relationship of your dreams and ideal partner will be.

    So what about “Internal” the changes we can make?

    Why Not to get into a Relationship

    Internal Changes

    The internal aspects we can change are our thoughts, our attitudes and our approaches.

    How to Clear Negative Thoughts and Feelings

    It is said that negative thought causes negative feelings, so keep a check on yourself when you’re feeling down – what are you thinking? If you’re thinking “I’m not attractive enough” you might need to change your attititude and accept that you are not Angelina Jolie or Brad Pitt, and that the person who falls for you will like your looks and more importantly, your inner qualities, too.

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    How Coaching Can Help You

    Being positive about yourself is an important first step. Start acknowledging your inner qualities instead of taking them for granted or dismissing them. If you don’t know what they are, start making a list! If you want your ideal partner to see good things about you, then you need to feel good about you!

    Having positive thoughts helps too. When you think negative thoughts such as "I'll never find the right person" or "I don't know how I'm going to find a relationship", check how this makes you feel. Most probably down rather than up!

    If you were to change that thought to a positive one e.g. "There are lots of people to meet, and I only need one ideal partner" - ask yourself how that thought makes you feel. If that one doesn't quite fit, then find a positive thought that means something to you and check how you feel.

    If you have difficulty changing negative thoughts into positive ones, you can get the support of a relationship coach by clicking here. If you want to find your ideal partner and the dating advice or relationship advice you have used is not working, then try something different.

    Self improvement comes from within, with your willingness to make some change on the ‘outside’ or on the ‘inside’.

    Remind yourself of the saying about CHANGE:

    “Be willing to change the things you can, accept the things you can’t change and have the wisdom to know the difference”.

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