Communication in Relationships is Key

Key to Singles Dating success and the best dating advice on workshops is about Communication in Relationships, an essential part of any dating service .

Whether at home, at work or when out with singles dating, how we communicate can make all the difference when it comes to attracting people to us in general and particularly when it comes to finding your ideal partner.

Do you listen enough? too much? Too little?

Listening isn’t simply a matter of using your ears to hear.

We have two ears and one mouth and it has been sai that we should use them in that proportion!

To create great communication in relationships , LISTENING is in the top 10 dating tips of all dating advice! True listening is about paying attention to what the person is conveying, showing interest in what they have to say and sometimes about showing that you understand.

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Do you talk too much?

Are you ‘good’ at keeping the conversation going, giving your opinions, telling anecdotes, talking about yourself? Great! – and in what proportion?

Good communication in relationships isn't only about listening.

The dating advice here is to consider whether you allow enough time for others to contribute, whether the other person is showing interest, whether there’s an opportunity to hear their ideas?

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Joke too much?

Some people are naturally amusing and have a great sense of humour. Their liveliness and bubbliness can be very attractive and absorbing. Check whether yours is a relaxed and fun approach or whether it’s more of a mask to stop people getting closer.

When you're involved in the world of singles dating , how we communicate is more than the words we use - it’s about our body language, our tone of voice, and about the underlying attitudes we convey. It’s also about willingness to be open and honest, willingness to express feelings and willingness to discuss things that bother us.

Bearing all this in mind, when we DO communicate consider these attitudes and approaches.



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Attractive Attitudes

When it comes to finding a relationship, our underlying attitudes will affect our communication and ultimately how to love in a way that you would like to be loved.

  • Accepting / non-judgmental – of self and others:

  • Aware of intention behind behaviour

  • Mistakes are not failures

  • No Labels – describe instead e.g. Instead of labelling the person as lazy, selfish be specific and tell them what they have done that you don't like.

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How to love is about the attitudes we have and how to communicate in a respectful way whether you are dealing with how to start a relatinship or how to end a relationship.

  • Be able and willing to Listen

  • Problem ownership: When two people are upset, ask yourself "Whose problem is it?"

  • Non-blaming – instead of ‘You’ Use ‘I’ - speak from own feelings, needs

  • Expectations / Rules: NO should/must/ought/have toInstead: COULD

  • Take responsibility for own thoughts, opinions, feelings, actions, choices

  • Be open to other opinions and ideas - don’t have to know everything

  • You don’t have to be right – it’s OK to be wrong or make mistakes

  • Positive attitude – see the good in things

  • Solution focused - be solutions focussed rather than problem focussed

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